TRANSFORMATIONAL COACH & MENTOR
A BROTHERHOOD OF
COMMITED MEN READY TO
RISE, HEAL, AWAKEN AND LEAD
The Embodied King Brotherhood is a kinship-based global online community of men committed to their healing, awakening, and embodied spiritual maturation for the benefit of not only themselves, but their families, communities, children, and humanity as a whole.
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It is a community of men rising to break the chains of wounded masculinity in their family lineage and on this planet and lead a new way forward from integrity, grounded presence, and fierce love.
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It is a Brotherhood of men ready to embody their capacity for powerful heart-centered leadership, take radical responsibility for the reality of all areas of their lives, be the change they wish to see in all men for the benefit of all beings, and to be held accountable to that standard of integral excellence.
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TEK Brotherhood is also both the entry point and sustainer of the prayer that is The Embodied King Men's Work, a movement and complete spiritual path in itself to the healing, transformation, realization, and maturation of men.
WHO IS
THE BROTHERHOOD FOR?
FOR THE MAN READY TO ANSWER THE CALL OF HIS HEART, AND RISE IN AWAKENED MASCULINE LEADERSHIP
The Embodied King Brotherhood welcomes men at every stage of their healing, maturation, and spiritual journey. And yet they all have one thing in common beneath all experience; they are ready to answer a calling to evolve beyond adolescent boyhood behavior. They are humble enough to ask for the help they need to rise as the heart-centered leader they know they can be with the support of experienced guidance and brotherhood. If this is you, this is your group, this is your path and this is your brotherhood.
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You are welcome if you're ..
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âžµ EXPERIENCED ON THE PATH OR NEW TO MEN'S WORK
For those already well seasoned on their spiritual/healing journey or if your just beginning, you'll find all levels of practice and commitment to either continue to deepen or receive the clarity on how to get started while being immersed in the fire of a committed brotherhood.
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âžµ GRADUATES OF THE EMBODIED KING:
If you’ve completed The Embodied King 3-month online course, Alumni King Brotherhood is the perfect place to continue on the path alongside your fellow brothers who have also passed through this initiation.
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No matter where you stand, The Embodied King Brotherhood has a space to meet you exactly where you are—while inviting you to grow into the man you’re becoming.
STRUCTURE OF
THE BROTHERHOOD
TWO CATEGORIES
WITH TWO LEVELS OF SUPPORT
​The Embodied King Brotherhood is structured into two categories that build on each other as a culture of kinship and elder initiation, Foundations Brotherhood and Alumni Brotherhood.
Foundations Brotherhood (levels 1&2) is for men who are new to our community and have not yet taken the 3 month course, Path of The Embodied King. These men are ready to start/continue their inner work and feel if the TEK Brotherhood culture is a good fit for their journey.
Alumni Brotherhood (levels 1 & 2), is for men who have completed Path of The Embodied King. This brotherhood is only for men who have completed all steps of the course and is thus a very potent group of men dedicated to this work.
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Each category has multiple levels of support and commitment to help meet you where you are and help you evolve into the next stage of your healing, maturation, awakening and leadership in all areas of your life.
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THE CALL STRUCTURE
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Once a month the full TEK Brotherhood will meet for a 90 minute coaching call and men's circle with Ian. The Alumni Brotherhood will have a second private 90 minute call with Ian every month, while men in Foundations Brotherhood will have a second monthly call lead by an Alumni brother. Every new man in the brotherhood will also have an alumni wingman for continuous monthly 1:1 support and accountability.​
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TEK FOUNDATIONS BROTHERHOOD
LEVEL 1
âžµ Two main group calls per month every other wednesday from 6pm to 730pm CET (mandatory calls)
âžµ One 90 minute full brotherhood group practice and coaching call with Ian and the TEK Alumni Brotherhood.
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âžµ One 90 minute men's circle or embodiment practice call with a TEK Alumni brother.
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➵ ​Spontaneous practice calls and workshops led by Alumni King brothers on many topics from finance, meditation, physical fitness, relationship and more with groups you can join to hold yourself accountable to deepening these areas of your life. These are optional calls and sub groups you can join.
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âžµ Telegram Group Chat lead by a TEK Alumni Brother.
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➵ Access to the call recordings. ​
LEVEL 2
âžµ Everything from Level 1, plus ...
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âžµ Full access to "The Library." a constantly expanding collection of talks, teachings, Q&A sessions, mini courses and guided practices from Ian.
LEVEL 3
➵ Everything from Levels 1 & 2 plus .. ​
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➵ A private 90 minute 1:1 coaching call with Ian once a month to help​ deepen, heal, or rise in any area of your life.
TEK ALUMNI BROTHERHOOD
LEVEL 1
âžµ Two 90 minute calls per month every other Wednesday from 6pm to 730pm CET.
âžµ One 90 minute full brotherhood group practice and coaching call with Ian that includes all men from The Brotherhood.
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âžµ An additional 90 minute call with Ian that is just for the Alumni Brotherhood.
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âžµ Telegram Group Chat lead by a TEK Alumni Brother and Ian.
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âžµ Q&A Chat with Ian where you can ask direct questions on any topic.
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âžµ Access to The Wolf Pack. A space in our community where you can share what you do for a living as an offering to the brotherhood. Here men can connect and support one another with their different skill sets and expertise.
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➵ Access to all call recordings. ​
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âžµ Full access to "The Library" a constantly expanding collection of talks, teachings, Q&A sessions, mini courses and guided practices from Ian + "The Embodied King Course"
​​TEK Alumni Brotherhood is only for men who have completed Path of The Embodied King 3 month online course.
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LEVEL 2
âžµ Two 90 minute calls per month every other Wednesday from 6pm to 730pm CET.
âžµ One 90 minute full brotherhood group practice and coaching call with Ian that includes all men from The Brotherhood.
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âžµ A second 90 minute call with Ian that is just for the Alumni Brotherhood.
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âžµ Telegram Group Chat lead by a TEK Alumni Brother and Ian.
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âžµ Q&A Chat with Ian where you can ask direct questions on any topic.
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âžµ Access to The Wolf Pack. A space in our community where you can share what you do for a living as an offering to the brotherhood. Here men can connect and support one another with their different skill sets and expertise.
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➵ Access to all call recordings. ​
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âžµ Full access to "The Library" a collection of talks, teachings, Q&A sessions, mini courses and guided practices from Ian + "The Embodied King Course"
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âžµ Once a month 90 minute 1:1 Call with Ian.
THE COMMITMENT
THE EMBODIED KING BROTHERHOOD
IS NOT A HANG OUT, IT'S FOR MEN
READY TO BE INITIATED INTO THE NEXT STAGE OF EMBODIED & AWAKENED MANHOOD
In every ancient culture in which there was an authentic spiritual path oriented towards truth, love and God, men have gathered ritualistically with one another to sharpen, reflect and hold one another accountable to uphold the integrity, safety, core values and well being of the tribe.
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They recognized that men where the providers of the physical, emotional and spiritual safety. If men were not well in themselves or in alignment with each other, the tribe was not safe and could not move forward, much like what we witness today. They understood that there was nothing more important for the well being of the tribe than their commitment to gather and help each other to heal, rise and awaken in love and strength.
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The pure intention of the brotherhood and of this sacred work is the fire that lights the way forward, but the coimmitment and integrity of each man in the circle is what keeps the fire burning. Therefore to be in this circle, and in this prayer a minimum commitment must be made and kept to keep this fire alive.
WHAT IT TAKES TO JOIN US
âžµ For all levels of The Embodied King Brotherhood, you must commit to be with us for 2 months minimum and to be present for 3 out of your 4 calls of that two month cycle. You will re commit 2 months at a time.
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âžµ A commitment of at least 20 minutes of practice of one of the 3 pillars of The Embodied King personal practice 5/7 days a week (awareness of breath, conscious movement of the body, resting in consciousness as consciousnesses itself, guided practices will be provided). You can also have more practice commitments and utilize the brotherhood to hold yourself accountable, however this is the bare minimum to stay in The Embodied King Brotherhood and it will be tracked. In other words, it's your log for the fire, it's your offering to yourself, the brotherhood and all humanity.
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➵ Having at least one call per month with your accountability brother for the cycle. ​
If you fail to meet these requirements in some way shape or form after joining, you will have an opportunity to do a "Clean Up" to come back into integrity with these commitments. If you fail to meet these requirements and you also fail to adhere to the clean up process we will understand that this kind of space is not for you at this time in your journey. We take commitment, accountability, practice and integrity very seriously and this brotherhood is for men ready to commit and go deep.
THIS BROTHERHOOD IS FOR YOU IF YOU'RE:
âžµ Seeking a continuous, sacred, and safe space of radical honesty, truth, depth, brotherhood, healing, love, and authenticity amongst like-hearted and committed men.
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âžµ Looking for a clear and authentic spiritual path specifically designed for the masculine heart and psyche.
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âžµ Longing for ongoing support, guidance, and clarity on how to deepen and embody your masculine core, and perpetually give it as a gift of love to your partner, family, community, purpose, and this Earth.
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âžµ Finished walking through life isolating as a lone wolf, pretending to be "good" when really deep down you're longing for connection and support.
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âžµ Ready to permanently break the cycles of relationship patterns that have kept you from experiencing true intimacy and true love with a partner.
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âžµ Ready to make spiritual and embodied practice a pillar of your life to harmonize, strengthen, and deepen your mind, body, and spiritual understanding.
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➵ Ready to be held accountable to embody the deepest purpose of your heart and maintain the structure needed to live and breathe it in full unwavering commitment.​​​
If any of this matches the longing of your Heart, you're in the right place.
MEET YOUR GUIDE
IAN WILKES
Ian is a men's work facilitator and coach, couples intimacy and relationship coach, breath-work and trauma release facilitator, and yoga/meditation teacher.
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In 2012, Ian left his life as a night club promoter and hotel manager in New York City on a spontaneous longing for meaning, healing and truth.
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Ian then spent 13 years and continuing in deep practice and study of ancient spiritual traditions and healing arts around the world. From living in ashrams in India, to Buddhist monasteries in Myanmar, to being an apprentice to an Ayahuasca shaman in the Amazon to studying with masters of modern healing modalities, to spending 3+ years in silent solitary retreats. This intense longing for truth and practice lead him to experience life changing healing and profound moments of deep understanding and illumination.
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After many years spent in solitude on this journey a deeper integration began to take place when there was an awakening to the reality of the suffering of men and the epidemic of wounded masculinity on our planet. It was soon revealed that his true calling was to be in devoted service to the healing, maturation and awakening of men as well as re initiating the spiritual path of intimate relationship and the healing between the masculine and feminine.
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Through that realization an absolute devotion arose to the study, experience and integration of men's work and relationship on the path of embodied awakening. Ian has now been holding life changing courses and retreats all around world for men and for couples with his beloved wife Valentina.
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He has founded The Embodied King Men's Work, a thriving global brotherhood and complete spiritual path in itself for the healing and awakening of the masculine soul. In the field of relationship he also founded The Path of True Intimacy with Valentina, a global community of couples and complete modality for the spiritual path of intimate relationship.
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Because of his deep curiosity, fire for practice and openness to all angles of healing and spiritual awakening he studied and immersed himself deeply in many paths and modalities including Yoga, meditation, trauma release, psychotherapy, inner child work, Tantra, embodied intimacy, relationship therapy, plant medicine, shadow work, group therapy, men's work and much more.
Ian now combines his vast knowledge of all these modalities and his personal journey and relationship to support the prayer of healing and awakening for men, and couples through retreats and courses all of over the world.
THE CALL TIMES
All live calls will take place on zoom. Because the work is 80% embodied practice it is important that your space is set up for practice on every call. This means being seated on the floor with proper cushions with plenty of space around you to move. You should be clearly visible with proper lighting so that Ian can see you from the chest up and also be able to hear you clearly.
Also make sure you have a 15 minute flexibility window at the end of the calls in case the call runs a little longer. Calls will always start on time, but can sometimes last longer, depending on group processes that need energetic completion.
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âžµ Call 1: January 7th // 6pm - 7:30pm CET
âžµ Call 2: January 21st // 6pm - 7:30pm CET
âžµ Call 3: February 4th // 6pm - 7:30pm CET
âžµ Call 4: February 18th // 6pm - 7:30pm CET
This Cadence continues year round.
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All calls will be recorded and uploaded to the online video library for review and for any men that miss a call and want to rewatch it. The calls will not be shared or used in any other way outside the course, with the exception of audio recordings of Ian's voice. ​​
JOIN US TODAY
THE NEXT ON-BOARDING CALL WILL BE ON
ON JANUARY 7TH 2026
​​FOR ALL NEW BROTHERS
(Alumni and Foundations)
If you're just joining us, you may sign up now below so that you have access to the online community and all video content and start to settle into the space. However, you won't be able to attend any live calls until the first Wednesday of the month which is the "On-Boarding Call" date above. Also, make sure to review the TEK Standard Commitments Below before signing up. Adhering to these commitments is mandatory in order to stay in the Brotherhood.
​​TEK STANDARD COMMITMENTS REVIEW
(Alumni and Foundations)
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1. TEK SPIRITUAL PRACTICE COMMITMENT
Every man agrees to a minimum of 15 minutes of TEK Embodied Spiritual Practice done 3/7 days a week and posting their overall commitments every 2 weeks in the "Accountability" channel, and doing daily (if needed) check ins depending on his commitments.
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2. ​TIME COMMITMENT
Every man commits to stay in the brotherhood for a minimum of 2 months starting from their on-boarding call and committing from there forth in 2 month cycles.
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3. TEK HONOR CODE OF INTEGRITY
Every man commits to adhere to the TEK Honor Code of Integrity, meaning, if he falls out of integrity with any of his personal stated commitments or "TEK Standard Commitments" he will hold himself accountable by stating this publicly in the brotherhood and performing 1 of the multiple "TEK Clean Ups" (a 20 minute practice of physical strength, breath, and meditation)
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4. THE CHAOS CONTAINER AGREEMENTS
Every man commits to adhere to the following agreements.
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Confidentiality: Every word and story that is spoken in the brotherhood, stays in the brotherhood.
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Commitment: To uphold and adhere to all commitments and guidelines of the brotherhood.
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Honesty: To speak and express with total sincerity and honestly to the best of ones ability.
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Acceptance: To accept every brother in the space with a non judgmental and embracing attitude.
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Ownership: Taking full ownership for our experience, thoughts and feelings by
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Sacredness: Treating this brotherhood, the calls and shares
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4. MONTHLY ACCOUNTABILITY BROTHER CALL
Every man commits to have 1 30 minute call per month with his accountability brother.
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5. MONDAY WEEKLY CHECK IN
Every man commits to check in every week on Monday in the "Open Sharing" chat with at least 3 sentences on how he doing.
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SPECIFIC FOR TEK ALUMNI
If you're just joining us for the first time, you may sign up now below so that you have access to the online community and all video content and start to settle into the space. However, you won't be able to attend any live calls until the first Wednesday of the month which is the "On-Boarding Call" date above.
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TEK Alumni
(Basic)
For TEK Graduates Only
99€
(Per Month)
OR
1,118 950€
(Annually - Save 20%)
☸ Two 90 Minute Coaching Calls With Ian per Month
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☸ ​Weekly Men's Circles, guest speakers and embodiment practice calls with Alumni Brothers.
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☸ Private Alumni Brotherhood group chat
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☸ Access to the call recordings.
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☸ Access to The Library. An ever growing collection of practices, teachings and Q&A recordings with Ian.
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☸ Access to the most recent version of The Embodied King 3 month course.
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☸ Q&A Chat with Ian
TEK Foundations
(Basic)
For NON Graduates Only
99€
(Per Month)
OR
1,118 950€
(Annually - Save 20%)
☸ Two 90 Minute Coaching Calls per month. (1 with Ian, 1 with a TEK Alumni)
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☸ ​Weekly Men's Circles, guest speakers and embodiment practice calls with Alumni Brothers.
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☸ Private Alumni Brotherhood group chat
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☸ Access to the call recordings.
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☸ Access to The Library. An ever growing collection of practices, teachings and Q&A recordings with Ian.
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☸ Access to the most recent version of The Embodied King 3 month course.
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☸ Q&A Chat with Ian