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~ Your Relationship is the Answer to Your Prayer ~

You know when you feel like running away? When you can't take it anymore? When you feel it's too much and you feel your partner will never change? When you feel there is no hope? When your reactivity is so strong that even seeing them causes all kinds of contractions in your body even when nothing is happening?

That's exactly the moment when you have the opportunity to become the love you've always wanted to receive. It's a divine moment in which your deepest healing is in your hands. It's the grace of being shown something inside of you that needs to be healed that could have never come without the grace of being in an intimate relationship.

I'm not saying you have to stay. I'm saying the relationship is the vehicle guiding you to look deeper than your pattern of clinging or running away. Each of those moments is an opportunity, an opportunity to be the person you secretly wish your partner was to you.

You see, relationship is not meant to be convenient for your ego, it is a divine orchestration, a ceremony that's designed to excavate and purify all that is untrue, and all that is being avoided in your being for your highest good amd the highest good of humanity, it is a prayer in itself.

When you can see it as such, as the sacred journey of two souls supporting one another to heal and remember who they truly are beyond all stories, patterns amd untruth, you are walking the highest path.

If you are wondering how this is done, my Beloved wife and I will be giving our 3 month course for couples, The Art of True Intimacy on exactly this starting late September.

We have space for 3 more couples, link is in my BIO. Hope to see some of your there and to reignite the prayer on Earth of what relationship truly means.

#Trueintimacy #sacredmasculine #sacredfeminine #relationshipcoach #tantra #tantricrelationships #relationshipcourse
#sacredunion #conciousrelating
#conciousrelatingcourse

~ Your Relationship is the Answer to Your Prayer ~

You know when you feel like running away? When you can't take it anymore? When you feel it's too much and you feel your partner will never change? When you feel there is no hope? When your reactivity is so strong that even seeing them causes all kinds of contractions in your body even when nothing is happening?

That's exactly the moment when you have the opportunity to become the love you've always wanted to receive. It's a divine moment in which your deepest healing is in your hands. It's the grace of being shown something inside of you that needs to be healed that could have never come without the grace of being in an intimate relationship.

I'm not saying you have to stay. I'm saying the relationship is the vehicle guiding you to look deeper than your pattern of clinging or running away. Each of those moments is an opportunity, an opportunity to be the person you secretly wish your partner was to you.

You see, relationship is not meant to be convenient for your ego, it is a divine orchestration, a ceremony that's designed to excavate and purify all that is untrue, and all that is being avoided in your being for your highest good amd the highest good of humanity, it is a prayer in itself.

When you can see it as such, as the sacred journey of two souls supporting one another to heal and remember who they truly are beyond all stories, patterns amd untruth, you are walking the highest path.

If you are wondering how this is done, my Beloved wife and I will be giving our 3 month course for couples, The Art of True Intimacy on exactly this starting late September.

We have space for 3 more couples, link is in my BIO. Hope to see some of your there and to reignite the prayer on Earth of what relationship truly means.

#Trueintimacy #sacredmasculine #sacredfeminine #relationshipcoach #tantra #tantricrelationships #relationshipcourse
#sacredunion #conciousrelating
#conciousrelatingcourse

~ The Prayer of Marriage ~

This past month, I underwent the initiatory ceremony of marriage with the love of my life, my Beloved partner and Self, Valentina.

Since we were spontaneously guided back into each other’s lives just over 3 years ago, we’ve been called into the depth of an ancient prayer and service that neither of us could have imagined, yet both remembered so clearly.

Both of us, coming from divorced homes and numerous failed relationships, were brought together by love—in a pure faith, trust, and devotion to one another—that something was different this time. It was clear: the time had come to face what needed to be faced in ourselves and in the collective.

I can’t explain it, but we both knew. This was the relationship that had no chance of ending in the same old way. This was the one where we would choose love above any wound, any pattern, or any story—and do the work to truly commit, heal, and live relationship as the embodied prayer and spiritual path it’s meant to be.

Our love wouldn’t let us get away with anything. No more lying. No more escape routes. No more grasping. No more blaming the other for our problems. No more excuses. Only radical responsibility. Our games had to end in the light of being committed to our prayer, to truth, and to God.

And it hasn’t been easy. We’ve had to take radical responsibility for EVERYTHING—in ourselves, for our parents, for all men, for all women, and that work continues. We’ve had to relearn how to truly love, truly commit, and truly show up for each other’s healing. With few to look up to, we've had to trust the fire of our own hearts to help us re learn the sacred work of relationship and how to support others in prayer for the same.

Now that we’ve said the vows and stepped through the portal of marriage, our prayer deepens, our commitment is known to the cosmos, our union is consecrated to Sita and Ram, and we're devoted to serving loves prayer for the liberation of all. There is simply no greater joy.

Thank you endlessly, my love. I love you with all my being. My heart is yours in service to the highest work of Love for this life and for all lives yet to come.

#trueintimacy #mothermary

~ The Prayer of Marriage ~

This past month, I underwent the initiatory ceremony of marriage with the love of my life, my Beloved partner and Self, Valentina.

Since we were spontaneously guided back into each other’s lives just over 3 years ago, we’ve been called into the depth of an ancient prayer and service that neither of us could have imagined, yet both remembered so clearly.

Both of us, coming from divorced homes and numerous failed relationships, were brought together by love—in a pure faith, trust, and devotion to one another—that something was different this time. It was clear: the time had come to face what needed to be faced in ourselves and in the collective.

I can’t explain it, but we both knew. This was the relationship that had no chance of ending in the same old way. This was the one where we would choose love above any wound, any pattern, or any story—and do the work to truly commit, heal, and live relationship as the embodied prayer and spiritual path it’s meant to be.

Our love wouldn’t let us get away with anything. No more lying. No more escape routes. No more grasping. No more blaming the other for our problems. No more excuses. Only radical responsibility. Our games had to end in the light of being committed to our prayer, to truth, and to God.

And it hasn’t been easy. We’ve had to take radical responsibility for EVERYTHING—in ourselves, for our parents, for all men, for all women, and that work continues. We’ve had to relearn how to truly love, truly commit, and truly show up for each other’s healing. With few to look up to, we've had to trust the fire of our own hearts to help us re learn the sacred work of relationship and how to support others in prayer for the same.

Now that we’ve said the vows and stepped through the portal of marriage, our prayer deepens, our commitment is known to the cosmos, our union is consecrated to Sita and Ram, and we're devoted to serving loves prayer for the liberation of all. There is simply no greater joy.

Thank you endlessly, my love. I love you with all my being. My heart is yours in service to the highest work of Love for this life and for all lives yet to come.

#trueintimacy #mothermary

|| 25% EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT UNTIL FEBRUARY 17TH ||
|| STARTS MARCH 25TH ||

This three-month online journey is an invitation for couples who feel called to grow, heal, and explore deeper layers of intimacy together. It is a space where relationship becomes a path of truth, authenticity, and connection—woven with practices from trauma healing, inner child work, somatic therapy, modern relationship wisdom, embodied intimacy, Tantric ritual, and the perspective of non-duality.

This offering has been unfolding for years, born from a longing to support a collective shift toward deeper harmony and a more grounded understanding of what it means to walk this path with another.

In a world where disconnection and misunderstanding are so common, we are invited to pause, to remember the essence of why we chose each other, and to step into a love that is both tender and strong. A love that is awake. A love that serves not just the two of us, but the world around us.

If this speaks to you, we welcome you to reach out—whether to ask questions, to share where you are on your journey, or simply to connect. And if now feels like the right time, we are offering a 25% discount until February 17th.

Wherever your path leads, may it be one of love, presence, and deep listening.

With care,
Ian & Valentina

#tantra #conciousrelating #imagotherapy #sacredsexuality #sacredbrotherhood #sacredintimacy #sacredmasculinity #divinefeminine #nonviolentcommunication #tantricrelationship #relationshiptherapy #yogicintimacy

|| 25% EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT UNTIL FEBRUARY 17TH ||
|| STARTS MARCH 25TH ||

This three-month online journey is an invitation for couples who feel called to grow, heal, and explore deeper layers of intimacy together. It is a space where relationship becomes a path of truth, authenticity, and connection—woven with practices from trauma healing, inner child work, somatic therapy, modern relationship wisdom, embodied intimacy, Tantric ritual, and the perspective of non-duality.

This offering has been unfolding for years, born from a longing to support a collective shift toward deeper harmony and a more grounded understanding of what it means to walk this path with another.

In a world where disconnection and misunderstanding are so common, we are invited to pause, to remember the essence of why we chose each other, and to step into a love that is both tender and strong. A love that is awake. A love that serves not just the two of us, but the world around us.

If this speaks to you, we welcome you to reach out—whether to ask questions, to share where you are on your journey, or simply to connect. And if now feels like the right time, we are offering a 25% discount until February 17th.

Wherever your path leads, may it be one of love, presence, and deep listening.

With care,
Ian & Valentina

#tantra #conciousrelating #imagotherapy #sacredsexuality #sacredbrotherhood #sacredintimacy #sacredmasculinity #divinefeminine #nonviolentcommunication #tantricrelationship #relationshiptherapy #yogicintimacy

|| 10% EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT ||
|| STARTS MARCH 24TH ||
|| REGISTRATION NOW OPEN ||

THE EMBODIED KING – A 12-WEEK MEN’S JOURNEY

A space for men committed to deep inner work, true masculine embodiment, spiritual depth, sacred sexuality, and real brotherhood.

This is for the man who knows he is capable of more. The man who is ready to face himself fully, shed old patterns, and step into his truth.

BROTHER, DOES THIS FEEL FAMILIAR?
Are you tired of carrying the weight of responsibility while staying stuck in procrastination?

Are you done with working a job that drains you, too afraid to take the leap toward your true purpose?

Are you numbing out with porn, alcohol, drugs, screens, or food—knowing deep down you’re meant for more?

Do you find yourself shutting down for days because of something your partner said, unable to shake the trigger?

Do you long for real brotherhood—men who see you, challenge you, and walk beside you on this path?

WHAT THIS SPACE OFFERS
A space where honesty is the foundation and presence is the practice.

A circle of men who uplift and hold one another accountable.

A commitment to facing the inner shadows that hold us back—together.

A deep inquiry into purpose: What am I truly here to do? And who must I become to lead myself, my family, and my loved ones with integrity?

A culture where all emotions are welcome, and where we stand beside each other in full support.

This is The Embodied King. Every part of you is welcome here.

|| REGISTER OR BOOK A CALL VIA LINK IN BIO ||

Early Bird Discount ends February 17th. We look forward to welcoming you.

#menswork #maturemasculinity #sacredmasculinity #kingwarriormagicianlover #menshealth #divinemasculine #menscoach #sacredbrotherhood #mensgroup #lifecoaching #innerguidance #innerpeace #innerstrength #sacredheart

|| 10% EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT ||
|| STARTS MARCH 24TH ||
|| REGISTRATION NOW OPEN ||

THE EMBODIED KING – A 12-WEEK MEN’S JOURNEY

A space for men committed to deep inner work, true masculine embodiment, spiritual depth, sacred sexuality, and real brotherhood.

This is for the man who knows he is capable of more. The man who is ready to face himself fully, shed old patterns, and step into his truth.

BROTHER, DOES THIS FEEL FAMILIAR?
Are you tired of carrying the weight of responsibility while staying stuck in procrastination?

Are you done with working a job that drains you, too afraid to take the leap toward your true purpose?

Are you numbing out with porn, alcohol, drugs, screens, or food—knowing deep down you’re meant for more?

Do you find yourself shutting down for days because of something your partner said, unable to shake the trigger?

Do you long for real brotherhood—men who see you, challenge you, and walk beside you on this path?

WHAT THIS SPACE OFFERS
A space where honesty is the foundation and presence is the practice.

A circle of men who uplift and hold one another accountable.

A commitment to facing the inner shadows that hold us back—together.

A deep inquiry into purpose: What am I truly here to do? And who must I become to lead myself, my family, and my loved ones with integrity?

A culture where all emotions are welcome, and where we stand beside each other in full support.

This is The Embodied King. Every part of you is welcome here.

|| REGISTER OR BOOK A CALL VIA LINK IN BIO ||

Early Bird Discount ends February 17th. We look forward to welcoming you.

#menswork #maturemasculinity #sacredmasculinity #kingwarriormagicianlover #menshealth #divinemasculine #menscoach #sacredbrotherhood #mensgroup #lifecoaching #innerguidance #innerpeace #innerstrength #sacredheart

~ "Be Right or Be Love" ~

I know, this one is really hard, and trust me, I struggled with this for so many years in relationships and lost many a great love to do this tendency.

This is one of the hardest things to pierce through, especially when you're in your most triggered, hurt, and contracted state. But this is the work, and those moments are the answer to your hearts deepest prayer.

If you find yourself hammering your view onto your partner while not embracing and invalidating their perspective no matter how crazy it sounds, leave the hope for their body and heart to be open to you behind.

Expecting to receive what you are not willing to give is a sure way to live a life and attract relationships that bring only dissatisfaction and disappointment.

It's not wrong to stand your ground, but if your ground is the only ground in existence and you blame your partner for being the one whose "closed all the time" you're simply completely out of integrity with yourself, and with reality.

When you're in denial of how your actions, reactions and lack of honoring yourself are a major part in creating an undesirable reality and culture in your relationships, that karma and those realities will multiply endlessly until you awaken to truth, humble yourself and learn to take 100% responsibility for your side of the street.

The patterns you fear and dislike the most will repeat until you learn that the only way out is to rise and become the very love you wish to receive.

Only when we learn to take full responsibility for our wounds, our behavior, our emotions, our truth, our own awakening and give what we long to recieve, can we earn the feathers to truly call another being forward.

If you wish to learn this way of the sacred work through the ceremony of your relationship, my partner and I have a full 3 month course to support couples who are ready to heal together called The Art of True Intimacy.

Registration for our spring cohort is now open and space is limited. Click the link in my bio if you're ready and to learn more 🙏🏻

#sacredintimacy #relationshiptherapy #intimacycoach #relationshipcoach #relationshipcourse

~ "Be Right or Be Love" ~

I know, this one is really hard, and trust me, I struggled with this for so many years in relationships and lost many a great love to do this tendency.

This is one of the hardest things to pierce through, especially when you're in your most triggered, hurt, and contracted state. But this is the work, and those moments are the answer to your hearts deepest prayer.

If you find yourself hammering your view onto your partner while not embracing and invalidating their perspective no matter how crazy it sounds, leave the hope for their body and heart to be open to you behind.

Expecting to receive what you are not willing to give is a sure way to live a life and attract relationships that bring only dissatisfaction and disappointment.

It's not wrong to stand your ground, but if your ground is the only ground in existence and you blame your partner for being the one whose "closed all the time" you're simply completely out of integrity with yourself, and with reality.

When you're in denial of how your actions, reactions and lack of honoring yourself are a major part in creating an undesirable reality and culture in your relationships, that karma and those realities will multiply endlessly until you awaken to truth, humble yourself and learn to take 100% responsibility for your side of the street.

The patterns you fear and dislike the most will repeat until you learn that the only way out is to rise and become the very love you wish to receive.

Only when we learn to take full responsibility for our wounds, our behavior, our emotions, our truth, our own awakening and give what we long to recieve, can we earn the feathers to truly call another being forward.

If you wish to learn this way of the sacred work through the ceremony of your relationship, my partner and I have a full 3 month course to support couples who are ready to heal together called The Art of True Intimacy.

Registration for our spring cohort is now open and space is limited. Click the link in my bio if you're ready and to learn more 🙏🏻

#sacredintimacy #relationshiptherapy #intimacycoach #relationshipcoach #relationshipcourse

May the endless love, fire, courage, commitment, conviction, and presence of the Heart of Yeshua permeate our entire being on this sacred day.

May we find the stillness to connect with the essence of Christ, which is none other than the light of our own being.

May that revelation bring tears of faith and longing to our eyes. May it soften us to our core, to feel all that needs to be felt to bring healing and forgiveness to all areas of Heart, lives, communities, and this Earth.

May we stop pretending that we are not that, that we are not that light, that we are not the very love we seek, that we are not that Everlasting presence and unconditional kindness that looks through the eyes of all sentient beings.

All praises honor, gratitude, and reverence to Mother Mary for her endless grace, courage, and compassion. Praise, honor, and gratitude to Joseph for his faith, love, and for hearing the call. May they're commitment to truth and love live in our hearts forever and give us the strength to surrender to the Heart of the King.

May the light of what happened on this day and what it truly means find its way into our hearts again. May the light of Jesús heal our relationships, heal our souls, and guide us back into the kingdom of heaven that dwells within..

"I do not pray for these alone, but also for those who will believe in Me through their word; that they all may be one, as You, Father, are in Me, and I in You; that they also may be one in Us, that the world may believe that You sent Me." - John 17:20 - 23

With all the love, many blessings on your journey and the journey of us all back to the Heart ❤️

Amen 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

#chistmas #jesus #mothermaryprayforus #mothermary #jesús #jesuschrist #loveofchrist #guadeloupe #maryimmaculate #lourdes #fatima #corazonsagrado #sacredheartofjesus

May the endless love, fire, courage, commitment, conviction, and presence of the Heart of Yeshua permeate our entire being on this sacred day.

May we find the stillness to connect with the essence of Christ, which is none other than the light of our own being.

May that revelation bring tears of faith and longing to our eyes. May it soften us to our core, to feel all that needs to be felt to bring healing and forgiveness to all areas of Heart, lives, communities, and this Earth.

May we stop pretending that we are not that, that we are not that light, that we are not the very love we seek, that we are not that Everlasting presence and unconditional kindness that looks through the eyes of all sentient beings.

All praises honor, gratitude, and reverence to Mother Mary for her endless grace, courage, and compassion. Praise, honor, and gratitude to Joseph for his faith, love, and for hearing the call. May they're commitment to truth and love live in our hearts forever and give us the strength to surrender to the Heart of the King.

May the light of what happened on this day and what it truly means find its way into our hearts again. May the light of Jesús heal our relationships, heal our souls, and guide us back into the kingdom of heaven that dwells within..

"I do not pray for these alone, but also for those who will believe in Me through their word; that they all may be one, as You, Father, are in Me, and I in You; that they also may be one in Us, that the world may believe that You sent Me." - John 17:20 - 23

With all the love, many blessings on your journey and the journey of us all back to the Heart ❤️

Amen 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

#chistmas #jesus #mothermaryprayforus #mothermary #jesús #jesuschrist #loveofchrist #guadeloupe #maryimmaculate #lourdes #fatima #corazonsagrado #sacredheartofjesus

~ FREE Emboided Masterclass for Couples ~
Healing the Core Wound in Relationship

My partner Valentina and I are very excited to announce a new free masterclass specifically for couples on how to start the healing process of the core wound behind all disconnection in relationship.

In this masterclass we will help you identify the root cause of what's holding you back from a base level of harmony in your relationship, causing patterns of disconnection and struggle and show you a clear path and structure on how to create a culture of safety and Love in your relationship.

This masterclass is also for couples who may have a harmonious relationship but are looking to dive even deeper into intimacy with one another and open to the next level of healing and awakening together.

On the call, we will do an embodied intimacy practice showing you experiencially how to support one another in healing your core wounds. We'll follow this with a step by step process of how to create a culture of emotional safety and healing in your relationship, and ending with a live Q&A with Valentina and I.

Relationship is one of the most profound and fortunate opportunities for your deepest healing and spiritual maturation if it can be seen in this way. We hope to have some of you with us on this journey as we work to re define the culture of relationship on this Earth.

To register for free or to learn more, click the LINK IN BIO.

Also, the call will be recorded and sent to everyone who registers. We look forward to meeting some of you there !

With Love ❤️
Ian and Valentina

~ FREE Emboided Masterclass for Couples ~
Healing the Core Wound in Relationship

My partner Valentina and I are very excited to announce a new free masterclass specifically for couples on how to start the healing process of the core wound behind all disconnection in relationship.

In this masterclass we will help you identify the root cause of what's holding you back from a base level of harmony in your relationship, causing patterns of disconnection and struggle and show you a clear path and structure on how to create a culture of safety and Love in your relationship.

This masterclass is also for couples who may have a harmonious relationship but are looking to dive even deeper into intimacy with one another and open to the next level of healing and awakening together.

On the call, we will do an embodied intimacy practice showing you experiencially how to support one another in healing your core wounds. We'll follow this with a step by step process of how to create a culture of emotional safety and healing in your relationship, and ending with a live Q&A with Valentina and I.

Relationship is one of the most profound and fortunate opportunities for your deepest healing and spiritual maturation if it can be seen in this way. We hope to have some of you with us on this journey as we work to re define the culture of relationship on this Earth.

To register for free or to learn more, click the LINK IN BIO.

Also, the call will be recorded and sent to everyone who registers. We look forward to meeting some of you there !

With Love ❤️
Ian and Valentina

~ Follow the Deeper Call ~

The wake up call sometimes looks like an injury of some kind, crippling addiction, the pain of mediocrity, depression, a break up from a deep love, illness, a subtle internal discomfort or a multitude of other phenomenon that break the heart, mind or body.

When you're unconsciously moving from the untrue, from fear, thinking pleasure will manifest your prayer for freedom, or that avoiding discomfort will alleviate your suffering, you're dreaming.

There are far too many men taking the route of comfort or doubting their true calling, afraid of the call of the wild, not trusting fully in their heart, placing their trust in manifestation. We were trained this way as it supports the collective dream of eternal happiness through material wealth, which has still to this day, never once been attained. See it, know it.

No matter how much we spin there looking, the heart will ache more and more until the rock bottom is felt.

Listen brothers, listen for the call, the call to rise, the call to heal, the call to take responsibility for the pain the feminine feels from being silenced, the pain our forefathers could not process, they live in our heart and they long for your freedom.

Mediocrity will never bring that freedom. Monetary pleasure will never fulfill your soul. Learn to sit alone, to sit in the dark, feel your pain, let its knife shape you into perfection, until nothing is left, nothing but the emptiness of the pure One shining through your eyes, in all it's glory forever and ever, Amen.

#menswork #maturemasculinity #sacredmasculinity #kingwarriormagicianlover #menshealth #divinemasculine #menscoach #sacredbrotherhood #mensgroup #lifecoaching #innerguidance #innerpeace #innerstrength #sacredheart

~ Follow the Deeper Call ~

The wake up call sometimes looks like an injury of some kind, crippling addiction, the pain of mediocrity, depression, a break up from a deep love, illness, a subtle internal discomfort or a multitude of other phenomenon that break the heart, mind or body.

When you're unconsciously moving from the untrue, from fear, thinking pleasure will manifest your prayer for freedom, or that avoiding discomfort will alleviate your suffering, you're dreaming.

There are far too many men taking the route of comfort or doubting their true calling, afraid of the call of the wild, not trusting fully in their heart, placing their trust in manifestation. We were trained this way as it supports the collective dream of eternal happiness through material wealth, which has still to this day, never once been attained. See it, know it.

No matter how much we spin there looking, the heart will ache more and more until the rock bottom is felt.

Listen brothers, listen for the call, the call to rise, the call to heal, the call to take responsibility for the pain the feminine feels from being silenced, the pain our forefathers could not process, they live in our heart and they long for your freedom.

Mediocrity will never bring that freedom. Monetary pleasure will never fulfill your soul. Learn to sit alone, to sit in the dark, feel your pain, let its knife shape you into perfection, until nothing is left, nothing but the emptiness of the pure One shining through your eyes, in all it's glory forever and ever, Amen.

#menswork #maturemasculinity #sacredmasculinity #kingwarriormagicianlover #menshealth #divinemasculine #menscoach #sacredbrotherhood #mensgroup #lifecoaching #innerguidance #innerpeace #innerstrength #sacredheart

~ From Patterns to Presence ~

If we want the kind of deep relationship that truly meets and fulfills that call of the soul to heal on its deepest levels, we need to become very aware of when we start meeting only at the level of patterns.

Oftentimes, relationships can become a shallow play of relating at the level of fear. We hide parts of ourselves to avoid feeling a certain way, to be loved, or to try to change our partners. When we stay in that hiding a true intimacy can never manifest, and parts of ourselves start to come up with very convincing stories to justify separation instead of being vulnerable and moving towards connection.

The thing is, when we first fell in love, our center of regard was not on trying to be right, changing our partners, or changing ourselves. For the most part, we were dissolved in love. There was much less of us there in terms of our personality and our need to be right.

When the relationship matures and daily life and habitual patterns creep in, it becomes paramount that we consciously remember to shift away from pattern to pattern relating and deepen in presence to presence relating. This means truly taking the time to be with one another in silence and to practice as often as possible, connecting to the silent depth of your partner. The conciousness in them that never speaks. The part of them you didn't fully realize you were so connected to in the beginning, the always everpresent spirit that you both are.

In that depth, the peace, the love, and the true meeting is always available. It's what your relationship is calling you to remember that there is only one of you ❤️

#sacredintimacy #relationshiptherapy #intimacycoach #tantrateacher #relationshipcoach #divinefeminine #menswork #maturemasculinity #sacredmasculinity #kingwarriormagicianlover #menshealth #divinemasculine #menscoach #sacredbrotherhood #mensgroup #lifecoach #holisticlifecoach #shadowwork #meditation

~ From Patterns to Presence ~

If we want the kind of deep relationship that truly meets and fulfills that call of the soul to heal on its deepest levels, we need to become very aware of when we start meeting only at the level of patterns.

Oftentimes, relationships can become a shallow play of relating at the level of fear. We hide parts of ourselves to avoid feeling a certain way, to be loved, or to try to change our partners. When we stay in that hiding a true intimacy can never manifest, and parts of ourselves start to come up with very convincing stories to justify separation instead of being vulnerable and moving towards connection.

The thing is, when we first fell in love, our center of regard was not on trying to be right, changing our partners, or changing ourselves. For the most part, we were dissolved in love. There was much less of us there in terms of our personality and our need to be right.

When the relationship matures and daily life and habitual patterns creep in, it becomes paramount that we consciously remember to shift away from pattern to pattern relating and deepen in presence to presence relating. This means truly taking the time to be with one another in silence and to practice as often as possible, connecting to the silent depth of your partner. The conciousness in them that never speaks. The part of them you didn't fully realize you were so connected to in the beginning, the always everpresent spirit that you both are.

In that depth, the peace, the love, and the true meeting is always available. It's what your relationship is calling you to remember that there is only one of you ❤️

#sacredintimacy #relationshiptherapy #intimacycoach #tantrateacher #relationshipcoach #divinefeminine #menswork #maturemasculinity #sacredmasculinity #kingwarriormagicianlover #menshealth #divinemasculine #menscoach #sacredbrotherhood #mensgroup #lifecoach #holisticlifecoach #shadowwork #meditation

~ The One Step ~

We all want peace, we all long for happiness, we all pray for love, and yet the question remains, how? No matter what I do, it never seems to come, and when it does, it never seems to stay. What to do?

The essential step is so simple, has been said so many times, and yet if we're still suffering in that deep ground shaking way, it means we're still not listening.

Even those of you who've been on the spiritual path for many years and have heard this many times, this becomes boring for the mind and the thought "I know this already" arises so you will skip past a post like this and continue your searching. But did you really integrate it? Are you still following and being taken over completely by thought and emotion? Are you still seeking for the next teacher? The next training? The next peak experience that will bring you to freedom at some point in the future?

I hope it's clear. In no way am I saying not to feel, and if you follow my teaching, you can see that feeling and evoking has tremendous emphasis and is essential. I'm saying not to believe. Not to believe in what comes and what goes. Rather to take the most valuable currency and resource you have, your attention, and place it on the source from which your trouble arises and see that your essence is an unfathamable peace and silence .

It's important, however, you don't take my word for it. Look for yourself and come to know it directly. Knowledge at the level of mind will never bring true freedom, yet it's openness to explore this as direct experience can support very much.

Simply inquire: when I look within for the deepest part of myself, beyond anything that can arise or fall away, what do I find? What are the qualities of the absolute deepest corner of who you truly are when you close your eyes and sincerely look within? Feel the answer and let how you live be guided by that discovery.

#meditation #selfinquiry #lifecoach #intimacycoach #relationshipcoach #relationshiptherapy #menswork #advaitavedanta #menscoach

~ The One Step ~

We all want peace, we all long for happiness, we all pray for love, and yet the question remains, how? No matter what I do, it never seems to come, and when it does, it never seems to stay. What to do?

The essential step is so simple, has been said so many times, and yet if we're still suffering in that deep ground shaking way, it means we're still not listening.

Even those of you who've been on the spiritual path for many years and have heard this many times, this becomes boring for the mind and the thought "I know this already" arises so you will skip past a post like this and continue your searching. But did you really integrate it? Are you still following and being taken over completely by thought and emotion? Are you still seeking for the next teacher? The next training? The next peak experience that will bring you to freedom at some point in the future?

I hope it's clear. In no way am I saying not to feel, and if you follow my teaching, you can see that feeling and evoking has tremendous emphasis and is essential. I'm saying not to believe. Not to believe in what comes and what goes. Rather to take the most valuable currency and resource you have, your attention, and place it on the source from which your trouble arises and see that your essence is an unfathamable peace and silence .

It's important, however, you don't take my word for it. Look for yourself and come to know it directly. Knowledge at the level of mind will never bring true freedom, yet it's openness to explore this as direct experience can support very much.

Simply inquire: when I look within for the deepest part of myself, beyond anything that can arise or fall away, what do I find? What are the qualities of the absolute deepest corner of who you truly are when you close your eyes and sincerely look within? Feel the answer and let how you live be guided by that discovery.

#meditation #selfinquiry #lifecoach #intimacycoach #relationshipcoach #relationshiptherapy #menswork #advaitavedanta #menscoach

~Listening to Her Call for Healing ~

Here's the deal, in most cases in our time, we no longer need each other for survival in relationship. On the whole, in the west, most have the resources to make it on their own.

Thats why if things aren't going well in relationship and there's not an attunement to the inner work, the awareness to mature and the longing to awaken, there's no reason to stay in a constant state of struggle with someone who's not willing to rise and do their work.

Because most people are still not fully aware of this and the massive lack of understanding in the importance of taking responsibility for ourselves, we see the highest divorce rates in the history of humanity.

Now for my brothers: often times the feminine being (not always) of the relationship will awaken to this understanding first and start to push for the relationship and you to move towards healing, maturing and awakening.

The majority of the time, her complaints, lack of openness toward you, and overall longing for more is coming from not feeling you present, aware, or in integrity with yourself or with her.

In her core, she is reacting to your level of consciousness. She will do and say everything to test you until you start to heal and remember who you truly are and get the help you need to make that happen.

There are two things you can do when the feminine wind starts to blow in the direction of evolving together if you want the relationship to last and keep it's spark.

1. Catch the wind, feel what she's pointing to and start to be proactive and play an active role in moving the relationship towards depth and healing.

2. If you have no idea what you're doing or how to move in that space, LISTEN TO HER, while of course, keeping your own discernment and authenticity. She can feel you deeper than you can feel yourelf, and her deepest longing is also for your freedom. Try not to drag your feet, listen and support her in that movement, and at least take leadership in the logistical apsects.

With love family and reach out in a DM for a free relationship consultation 🙏🏻

#relationalhealing #relationshipcoach #tantra #tantricrelationships #menscoach #menswork

~Listening to Her Call for Healing ~

Here's the deal, in most cases in our time, we no longer need each other for survival in relationship. On the whole, in the west, most have the resources to make it on their own.

Thats why if things aren't going well in relationship and there's not an attunement to the inner work, the awareness to mature and the longing to awaken, there's no reason to stay in a constant state of struggle with someone who's not willing to rise and do their work.

Because most people are still not fully aware of this and the massive lack of understanding in the importance of taking responsibility for ourselves, we see the highest divorce rates in the history of humanity.

Now for my brothers: often times the feminine being (not always) of the relationship will awaken to this understanding first and start to push for the relationship and you to move towards healing, maturing and awakening.

The majority of the time, her complaints, lack of openness toward you, and overall longing for more is coming from not feeling you present, aware, or in integrity with yourself or with her.

In her core, she is reacting to your level of consciousness. She will do and say everything to test you until you start to heal and remember who you truly are and get the help you need to make that happen.

There are two things you can do when the feminine wind starts to blow in the direction of evolving together if you want the relationship to last and keep it's spark.

1. Catch the wind, feel what she's pointing to and start to be proactive and play an active role in moving the relationship towards depth and healing.

2. If you have no idea what you're doing or how to move in that space, LISTEN TO HER, while of course, keeping your own discernment and authenticity. She can feel you deeper than you can feel yourelf, and her deepest longing is also for your freedom. Try not to drag your feet, listen and support her in that movement, and at least take leadership in the logistical apsects.

With love family and reach out in a DM for a free relationship consultation 🙏🏻

#relationalhealing #relationshipcoach #tantra #tantricrelationships #menscoach #menswork

~ The 7 Pillars (Part 2 of 2) ~

In this continuation of the 7 pillars for true intimacy and deep healing in relationship, we explore some more subtle nuances of the inner work and what relationship is truly and ultimately about.

We can start to see relationship as the temple in which each individual must go through the initiation of relinquishing all that that keeps them separate from their beloved and separate from truth on all levels. It's a journey that requires faith, perseverance, wisdom, and a deep trust in love.

Not every relationship will make it, but what's important is that you make it in peace, love, and integrity. We can not control what will happen, but you always have the capacity to self reflect, humble yourself and move from truth.

Relationship may not always be pleasant, but that is different than the peace you can ALWAYS feel inside no matter what happens when you take full responsibility for the reality you've played a part in creating and when you consciously know you're prioritizing love over all else.

If you're struggling in relationship or are doing well but would like to go deeper, feel free to book a call with me use the link in my bio or send me a DM.

May these pointers support you in your relationship journey and bring light where it is most needed ❤️

#relationalhealing #relationshiptherapy #reltionshipgoals
#menscoach #menswork #shadowwork #tantra #tantricrelationships #sacredsexuality #sacredmasculinity #relationshipcoach

~ The 7 Pillars (Part 2 of 2) ~

In this continuation of the 7 pillars for true intimacy and deep healing in relationship, we explore some more subtle nuances of the inner work and what relationship is truly and ultimately about.

We can start to see relationship as the temple in which each individual must go through the initiation of relinquishing all that that keeps them separate from their beloved and separate from truth on all levels. It's a journey that requires faith, perseverance, wisdom, and a deep trust in love.

Not every relationship will make it, but what's important is that you make it in peace, love, and integrity. We can not control what will happen, but you always have the capacity to self reflect, humble yourself and move from truth.

Relationship may not always be pleasant, but that is different than the peace you can ALWAYS feel inside no matter what happens when you take full responsibility for the reality you've played a part in creating and when you consciously know you're prioritizing love over all else.

If you're struggling in relationship or are doing well but would like to go deeper, feel free to book a call with me use the link in my bio or send me a DM.

May these pointers support you in your relationship journey and bring light where it is most needed ❤️

#relationalhealing #relationshiptherapy #reltionshipgoals
#menscoach #menswork #shadowwork #tantra #tantricrelationships #sacredsexuality #sacredmasculinity #relationshipcoach

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